SRI LANKA

The First Meeting with
Father Terence - January 2005

(Extract from Pat's diary after the initial meeting)

Pat Atkinson with Father Terence

"Sri Lanka was really hot, 36C when Suzy and I arrived. After putting suitcases in to our room I spoke to the door porter to ask where the nearest church was - this seeming the best bet to find ways that we may be able to help. We were told that it was five minutes walk away, so set off. It was over half a mile! When we got there it was closed, a sortie round the grounds to find the priests house led to me being shooed away by the watchman! On the way I had noticed a Don Bosco Centre (international street children organisation, supposed to be available 24/7). There was no one there; in fact it looked almost derelict. So back to the hotel feeling extremely hot. The receptionist I approached suggested that we find her church, and the Minister, Father Terence. So, off in an auto rickshaw.

We found the church. It was shut. In the side of the church were 2 beggars; one said that the church opened at 3pm. It was 2pm, so we went back to the hotel, had a drink, and started out again! At 3pm the church was still deserted and closed.

Father Terence at his parish church

We wandered round for almost half an hour and were about to give up when we saw a man at the rear of the church. I went to ask him if he knew where we could find Father Terence, and he pointed - he had just come out of a door that did not look like a part of the church. So, in to join him, he was bemused that we knew his name, and then we talked. What a lovely man!! His daughter's church had 35 fishing families who had been totally washed out by the Tsunami, and were now living in tents in a refugee area. His plan was to buy a small piece of land and resettle them. He had set up the bank account, had plans drawn up, had managed to raise some money locally, but was about £300 short of the money for the land.

We had £300 with us that I had been asked by doctors at the Norfolk and Norwich University Hospital to give to Sri Lanka.

After a rather emotional farewell - because I had just told him the story of how we had got to him, he said, "You know that God sent you, don't you?" I'm really looking forward to going back to see him again.

During our talk he told me some of the difficult things that have happened around the Tsunami, similar stories to those I had heard in India. Of people who were unaffected by the Tsunami managing to procure funds (one man had thousands of dollars coming from the States because he said his fishing boats had been destroyed - they had not).

Father Terence in the church grounds

Corruption is a way of life in the Third World; I think we all know that, some of the stories underpin what we have always known. Our money is safe with Father Terence. It is paid through church accounts, and the whole congregation knows of our involvement.

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